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My son's choices not my life

Posted on July 23, 2012 at 10:37pm 22 Comments

Back in the late 70's I joined the U.S. Air Force. As an already certified aircraft mechanic it was the prudent thing to do. However, my heart was in the Marine Corps. Today my decision has paid dividends in the job that I was able to attain. Recently my second oldest of five boys joined the Marine Corps, he is a "poolee" and won't leave for several months. I can't describe how proud of him I am. However, I do have a problem and that is I have to learn to let him live his life, and I find…


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At 7:32pm on April 18, 2013, SEAmom (Linda) said…

Hey Danny, my understanding is those infantry who want to be RECON have two choices (1.) Contract Recon - they train at Pendleton, CA and if they fail the USMC can put them wherever they choose (2.) Train infantry, do well and request RECON, then they go to Pendleton to train for RECON. My son is SOI, Infantry, and originally wanted Recon but he does NOT want them to put him wherever they want if he can't achieve that level. So he's going to Camp Geiger, NC.  Hope all is well with you and Bri5 & your boys ... enjoy these last few days.

At 7:17am on July 26, 2012, LazyK-Chyn said…

Thanks for the friend invite.

Thank you for raising a son who would choose to stand for his country

At 8:17am on July 25, 2012, Double Dad said…

Hi Danny. Glad to "friend" you on MFN. We're all in this together. God bless. Bob


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